Hawraa Rahal, Psychology, 3rd year
Country of fieldwork: Nepal
Canadian NGO: MAC
Local NGO: Ban Landmines Campaign Nepal (NCBL)
During my time in Nepal, most of my work at NCBL was office-based, where I collected data on armed and explosive-related violence in the country. As I went through records, I came across many disturbing cases, incidents where a child had harmed a parent, a husband had shot his wife, or neighbors had used firearms against each other over disputes. Even relatives were sometimes involved in violent altercations.
In those first weeks, reading such reports took an emotional toll. I felt drained and uneasy, knowing I was alone in a country where these events were happening. But as time went on, and now looking back after returning, my perspective has shifted completely.
The Nepal I experienced in daily life was filled with some of the kindest, warmest people I have ever met. They welcomed me not just with words, but in the smallest acts of kindness. Each morning, the bank security guard would greet me on my way to work, a simple moment that brightened my day. At a small café near the office, the owner went out of his way to find Halal chicken so I could enjoy everything on the menu. In shops and during my travels, strangers would invite me for tea, always making me feel like I belonged.
I believe religion plays a significant role in shaping these interactions. Both Hinduism and Buddhism promote peace and respect for all. As a Muslim visiting the Boudha Stupa, I was warmly approached by locals who checked if I was comfortable, offering help without hesitation.
The fear I once carried from pages filled with violence was only a shadow, never the true face of Nepal. This land is not, and I believe will never be, defined by blood or bitterness. In every greeting, every shared cup of tea, I found a gentleness that outshines the darkest of reports. I am confident that one day the people of Nepal will attain the peace they have long dreamed of, for to me Nepal, the birthplace of Boudha, will forever remain a land of peace and love.
Pic by Biraj Thing